Don't forget to love those around you regardless of the hole you might be in. Having the pleasure of having people in your life that love you demands you wake up out of the muck you've been in and so you must not push them away. If they are trying to give you advice or set you on a path and all those paths seem to point in the same direction, maybe it's time you check out that direction. Don't be mad at those that actually spend the time to pour into your life as they are the ones who care even